According to two new national surveys from Indiana University, 53% percent of women have used a vibrator. Perhaps even more interesting is that 81% of these ladies have used the device with a partner.

I’m a Taowinist–a cross between a Taoist and a Darwinist.  I remember the night I realized it. I was reading Alan Watts on Taoism and this sentence jumped out at me: The lifestyle of one who follows the Tao must be thought of as a form of intelligence

I just want to touch on one of the many issues that my husband and I are having…whether a married man should have ‘SEPARATE’ female friends. My husband is supposedly 'great friends' with the mother of his brother's son (they are not together). They…

Their husbands steal. They cheat.

Alright, everyone–it's high time for me to reveal a side of my past that may have a big effect on what you think of me as a man.

With Wimbledon wrapping up in the coming week, we can't help but notice how some sports —such as tennis—are so well-suited for dates .

We feel like we knew Michael Jackson. We share our tidbits and exchange questions about his life with one another as if we did. He spent hours studying movies of Fred Astaire

What constitutes crap?  This seems to have been a topic of considerable interest the past couple of weeks. About 10 years ago my wife and I started to do some gardening — flowers, shrubs, perennials, bushes, annuals.  I don’t suspect that anyone from Better Homes And Gardens will be contacting us anytime soon, but we are enjoying the splash of life that this has added around our home.  Well, when we first started this gardening thing and it was time to do some weeding, I had a very difficult time differentiating the weeds from the actual plants.  [For those of you who have done a lot of gardening, I’m sure that this sounds quite odd, but I really did have a hard time telling the weeds from some of the plants.]  As a result, for the first several years of this new venture we had quite a few weeds growing in our gardens (sometimes even to the point where the weeds were overgrowing some of the flowers, shrubs, and plants). When I first got married, I had what some people might call anger issues.  My anger typically did not consist of “hot” episodes — for example, yelling, swearing, throwing things — I had grown up with this and I had figured out ways to avoid slipping into this type of behavior (at least, most of the time).  Instead, my anger was of the “cold” variety — I would simply clam up, set my jaw, and be virtually immovable.  Needless to say, this was quite disconcerting for my wife, Kathy.  Right there in the middle of the garden of our life together were these ugly weeds.  In fact, not only was my stonewalling ugly to look at, but it also ended up choking off a lot of the life-giving love we had experienced

Hearing lore of dating disasters past makes me realize that I am,

The Empress card suggests that if you are overly focused on domestic responsibilities or other people's needs, then now is a good time to consider taking the initiative and indulging your prerogative, for you could be ripe for a little romance or passion.

Ah, summer. Balmy nights, sun-drenched days, gossamer clothing—there’s no doubt about it, this is the sexiest season of all. And what better way to celebrate the warm weather than by moving your bedroom activities outside

Strange things are brewing around these here parts.

Sharpen your claws, girls. Plenty of s exy older women (ahem, best known as cougars) have lure younger men away from

Finally! The weather is getting a little warmer and nicer, after a very rainy spring. So, my dears, on your summer dates, which of these three dresses would you wear?

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